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Sex is a normal human need, but how doing it properly and reap maximum pleasure and fulfillment is a real cause of disagreement among a majority of couples. Romping between the sheets is an art that goes beyond the ubiquitous and the monotonous missionary position that most couples identify with.
Regardless of how you look at it, once in a while, we all need something to spice up things in the bedroom. Otherwise, we might just stop enjoying sex or engaging in sex, altogether.
And among the many ways of bringing the magic back into your sex life is by trying out role play fantasy that comes with submission and dominance—by letting your partner take total control of matters with you on the receiving end of inestimable pleasure or vice versa.
The practices of BDSM are highly diverse in their nature, and offer lovers the chance to express themselves in new and exciting sexual ways.
BDSM is almost as much an art form as it is a practical means for kinky sex, and has taken so many different forms since its obscure and loosely defined origins.
There have been numerous cultures in the history of human evolution who have thoroughly embraced BDSM practices, both erotic and non-erotic, and each respective cultural instance of BDSM has had its own distinct features and methodology.
Creating Your Own BDSM Home Dungeon
On the note of medieval BDSM origins, it is important to realize that this medieval era of BDSM’s evolution actually played a prominent role in shaping what we know as modern or contemporary BDSM.
This is true especially in the realm of BDSM home dungeons, which essentially function as areas of a living space wherein certain BDSM activities can be conducted in the comfort and privacy of one’s own home.
These home BDSM play spaces can be great places for experimenting with new techniques and practices, since they offer participants a controlled zone that is free from external judgments and also from the kinds of unintended consequences that can arise when engaging in BDSM activities with people you haven’t known for very long.
There are many different tips and suggestions to consider when preparing to build your own BDSM home dungeon, and some of these helpful bits of information will now be introduced.
One of the first things to determine when beginning to set up your own BDSM home play area, is the exact room or location in which you plan to have your BDSM home dungeon.
It really is completely up to the individual to determine which area of a home would be most preferable for a BDSM home dungeon, and in actuality, any area or room inside a home would probably suffice. Continue reading “BDSM Home Dungeon”
Certain BDSM practices, both of the erotic and non-erotic classification, may involve the use of different types of rope for the purpose of binding participants in a given BDSM act. This is a practice that has its origins in ancient times, and has been exemplified by a number of different cultures throughout the ages.
The act of rope facilitated knot and hitch bondage practicing can be an especially stimulating experience for many couples, since the contrast between the submissive and dominant elements within a typical rope bondage activity are very exciting for a large number of couples and other types of sexual and non-sexual BDSM experimenters.
When seeking to engage in this kind of extreme sensual experience, there are a number of important areas of skill to familiarize yourself with, in order to avoid any potential injuries or unpleasant complications.
First and foremost, the areas of specific knot and hitch tying methods should be carefully studied and practiced by the participants of a BDSM rope bondage event.
These are the primary means by which the submissive role player in the rope bondage act will actually be bound and restrained. For the benefit of experienced bondage enthusiasts who would like to learn a bit more about their craft, or even those individuals who are only marginally interested in the subject of rope bondage, some of the different types of rope bondage acts, and types of rope bondage knots and hitches will now be explained briefly.
An Introduction to Bondage Via Rope and Hitch
For many couples, the dynamic of control and submission offered by rope and hitch style BDSM bondage is a very erotic one. The general helplessness imposed on the submissive role in an act of this kind of bondage is, for most participants, the main focus of the action.
Although rope tying and hitching can be some of the best and most intricate ways to engage in exciting BDSM rope bondage acts, beginners should be aware that there are some methods of binding that do not require any ropes or specific knot tying knowledge.
These methods consist of using leather ankle and wrist cuffs in order to properly restrain the submissive role player in a BDSM bondage action. In many instances, these leather restraining devices work almost as well as their rope-tied counterparts do.
Fundamentally, rope and hitch style bondage methods can be used for erotic stimulation, as well as punishment, humiliation, or disciplinarian style BDSM role playing.
Punishment Oriented Rope and Hitch Style Bondage
When engaging in a type of rope and hitch style bondage that is geared toward a punishment theme, usually participants will be bound in relatively less restrictive ways. This is for the purpose of allowing the submissive role player to become increasingly uncomfortable over time, and also it helps to insure that this submissive participant will not be injured if they remain in their punishment oriented bondage restraints for an extended period of time.
By leaving the submissive participant in a loose binding restraint, the goal is to allow them the ability to stand or move around slightly so that they will become more bored and uncomfortable, which can serve to greatly heighten the bondage experience that its participants are trying to cultivate.
Restraint Oriented Rope and Hitch Style Bondage
Unlike the punishment oriented bondage style mentioned before, restraint oriented binding practices feature extremely restrictive rope and hitch structuring. The object of this rope bondage niche is to make the submissive participant experience as little mobility as possible.
This restraint oriented rope binding takes the helplessness component of rope bondage to a whole new level, and could probably be characterized as the standard or normative method of restraining a BDSM participant.
When restraining the submissive participant, there are basically two different ways to achieve restrictively successful binding positions; one of these ways is symmetric binding, and the other is asymmetric binding.
By alternating between the more conventional symmetrical rope binding patterns and some of the more unique asymmetrical ones, participants in this type of bondage activity can always be doing something different and spontaneous with their BDSM rope binding activities.
Types of Rope Used for BDSM Style Binding
Once it comes time to actually select the rope you’ll use in your bondage activities, there are a few different options to choose from. Each one of the available options for bondage rope has its own set of pros and cons, which is why each of these options will now be detailed briefly.
Nylon rope is generally a good rope to use for your bondage needs, since it is strong, as well as being waterproof and easy to untie.
Another option to use is cotton roping, but this option is generally not recommended since it does not usually wear well over time, and it retains moisture in such a way that predisposes it to also retaining potentially dangerous germs.
There are a few other types of rope that are sometimes used in rope knot and hitch bondage practices, but generally speaking the braided nylon roping will almost always be the best option to use for your BDSM bondage endeavors.
Types of Knots and Hitches Often Used in Rope Bondage
One of the most often utilized knots in bondage activities is the square knot (otherwise known as a reef knot), which is a relatively flat knot used to evenly distribute pressure onto the participant being restrained. This type of knot can be easier on the skin and flesh than many other rope bondage knot variations.
A good knot for tying ankles and wrists together for the purpose of immobilizing them is the French Bowline knot. This knot is perfect for wrist and ankle restraints since it will not spontaneously tighten or cut off a participant’s circulation like some other knots can.
The anchor hitch is a somewhat complex hitch design, and it is much stronger than its cousin, the half hitch. This is a knot that will not give way or deform even under intense stress, and actually becomes only tighter when resisted against.
All three of these knots are great examples of the knot and hitch designs than can best facilitate an enjoyable BDSM rope bondage experience.
Disclaimer: Any activity that involves ropes is potentially hazardous. Lives may be at risk – possibly your own. Considerable attention and effort have been made to ensure that these descriptions are accurate. However, many critical factors cannot be controlled, including: the choice of materials; the age, size, and condition of ropes; and the accuracy with which these descriptions have been followed. No responsibility is accepted for incidents arising from the use of this material.
BDSM is a common term used to refer to bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism which are a sex category that has been gaining fanatics as the years go by. For individuals who like to experiment and try new things in bed, this is definitely worth a try. To make it even more exciting, bondage fetish furniture has been introduced in to the mix in an attempt to make things more interesting for those involved.
BDSM- beginners
For beginners, one should start by getting acquainted with all the various styles of fetish. Styles vary from role playing, use of restraints to include factors such as spanking through the use of different materials. Bondage furniture is a must have for those who would like to heighten the sexual pleasures during their acts.
Safety and Trust
Safety and trust are very important components when it comes to bondage activities. A partner must trust that their other half will be careful with the tools being used but at the same time also ensure that he or she gets to have fun. Where furniture is involved, the couple must make sure that it has come from a person who is well versed with the use of restraints.
Submission
The spanking bench is a common tool used in bondage sex. It is bench that has been made with the couple in mind. Also known as the bondage horse in some circles, it has been created in such a way that the submissive partner can lie in comfort without being hurt in any way during the entire exercise.
This can be used by both beginners and experienced couples. Given the position that the dominant person is standing at, he or she has total control over his partner. Mostly, the dominant individual is the spanker. At this level of elevation, the dominant partner is in a position to spank his partner and watch as they squirm due to the restraints that have been put in place.
Seduction
Seduction is also improved through the use of the bondage horse. Fetishes are all about what a person finds attractive in the other person. Bending over for spanking allows the spanker to enjoy the view that comes as a result of this type of elevation. In addition to getting to hit all the right spots, one also gets to heighten his sexual fetish by admiring the figure and body of his or her partner.
Anticipation
Anticipation has been known to heighten sexual tension during bdsm activities. All dungeon furniture is built in such a way that they are very comfortable. The added comfort allows the submissive party to concentrate on his excitement rather than worry about getting hurt or being uncomfortable. The fact that the restraints make it hard to more let alone turnaround is also exciting in its own unique way. This is mainly because one is not able to tell what is going to be done to him until the spanker has done it.
Exchanging Roles
Normally both partners involved in this type of fetish will enjoy exchanging roles. This means that they get to change between the submissive one and being the dominant one. At the end of it all, the dungeon furniture will ensure that both parties get maximum satisfaction through role playing and spanking each other at different angles using different amounts of strokes. Experimenting with the strokes can actually change the amount of pleasure experienced by the submissive partner.
Enhancing the Fantasies
As soon as a couple has acquired the spanking bench, they can use it to enhance their other sexual skills and fantasies. When the restraints are in place, an individual is at liberty to try different types of touch, use different spanking rhythms and alter as many aspects of the bdsm activities as they would like.
Where to find quality BDSM gear
It is however important to make sure that your fetish furniture has been built by an expert in the production of these types of furnishings and bdsm related activities. Individuals interested in placing custom orders indicating how they would like a certain piece of dungeon furniture to be built for them, can do so here at fetishfurniture.org. The very popular bondage benches in many cases come with as many as 17 restraint points, adjustable arms and legs and are easy to fold for storage related purposes. As a carpenter/ craftsman/ general contractor, you can be assured you are going to receive quality furnishings with durability and strength as well as tasteful beauty allowing sexual fantasies to blend with style and kinkiness.
