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Sensible BDSM?

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorder-Fourth Edition says that acts of sexual masochism and sadism are considered to be serious deviations from normal mental health.

Although they are not listed as disorders unless it causes harm or stress to anyone, it is still a huge black mark on BDSM. It makes people think that BDSM is not a good type of sexual activity to engage in but rather something that’s deviant in its own particular nature.

BDSM is not considered to be a disorder in any kind unless it is something that is harmful to people or is going to be too stressful to a participant. Still, the fact that BDSM was even mentioned in this report to begin with is not a good sign in the first place.

It clearly suggests that there is some kind of stigma against BDSM that entails people being troubled because they like to whip people or beat each other while having sex instead of just having sex straight-up.

However, people who enjoy BDSM are anything but insane. BDSM just might be more sensible than most other forms of sex or kink to begin with. It’s something that is not only consensual but is also planned out in advance.

In addition, the newest edition of the DSM may found that it is not some sign of a mental disorder like many people think it is.

This is all not to say that a person who has been identified as being as deviant according to the DSM is someone who will be emotionally hurt as a result of this label. Still, it’s a label that will hurt the opinions of a person that everyone else might have.

It’s a real hassle but it’s one that doesn’t have to dominate the discussion.

BDSM is something that’s safe and fun to play with when it’s controlled right. It’s clearly not something for everyone but it’s always something to consider when finding a new way to engage in sex.

Tom Douvia
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Unique Aesthetic Value With BDSM Equipment

When it comes to creating a living space that reflects your unique BDSM tastes and lifestyle attributes, there is so much that can be done to create a space that is not only pleasant to look at and spend time in, but also fully functional in terms of being a BDSM play-space for you and any significant others you may have.

Although some of the more poorly constructed and less tastefully designed BDSM equipment and furniture pieces may not be fit for display in front of guests or other individuals who are not engaging in BDSM activities, there are items that are finely crafted as to appear to be relatively conventional furniture pieces which are certainly fit for display in front of guests.

Having BDSM equipment that creates a genuinely welcome atmosphere for anyone Read the rest of this entry

Tom Douvia
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The BDSM Gift Idea?


bdsm_giftAlthough at first glance it might not seem totally appropriate to give a BDSM utility to a friend or loved one, the reality is that this kind of BDSM equipment can bring much more to a home or other type of living space than just BDSM activities.

These kinds of BDSM equipment items and furniture can actually serve as multiple purpose items, bringing practicality and function to a living space as well as bringing a new level of passion and experimentation to a relationship.

For any couples and other groups of people who are interested in a BDSM themed item or furniture piece, some additional information on the subject will now be shared.

Different Types of BDSM Equipment Items

fetish_gift_ideasWithin the realm of BDSM equipment items, there are many different types and variations for you and your partner to enjoy. One prominent and especially popular item currently available to interested consumers is the BDSM spanking bench; this item is truly a staple of any BDSM enthusiast’s collection of items.

A BDSM spanking bench can turn any room in your home into a wonderfully practical and useful realm of sensual and BDSM exploration. Even though it might seem like this kind of item could make a home seem distasteful or uncomfortable to guests, the reality is that these items tend to be professionally crafted pieces of practical furniture. Read the rest of this entry

Tom Douvia
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BDSM Equipment and FurnitureRe-thinking BDSM Equipment Items

Although many people are probably going to believe that having BDSM equipment in their homes is not going to be a tasteful addition to their aesthetic themes, this is actually not true depending on the brands and variations of equipment that a BDSM enthusiast decides to acquire for his or her living space.

While some BDSM equipment items are going to be more cheaply produced and appear less tasteful in their appearance, there are those BDSM equipment manufacturers that actually do a good job in terms of crafting quality equipment items that are both highly functional as well as being aesthetically pleasing to own and display in the home or other type of residential living space.

Types of BDSM Equipment That Can Increase Aesthetic Value in the Home

As previously stated, it is true that not all BDSM equipment items are going to be capable of displaying out in your home based on the standards of most people with regard to BDSM related activities.

However, if you are a BDSM enthusiast who wishes to be able to display your equipment items Read the rest of this entry

Tom Douvia
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