Planning BDSM Ahead

An amazing part of BDSM is that it entails people planning their scenarios ahead of time. They plan to see who will have more power and who will be in charge when engaging in sexual acts. This is different from what critics say. Many critics argue that BDSM only encourages the man in the relationship to have more power and to be dominating over the woman. However, people can end up changing their concepts of sexuality by performing it instead of just experiencing sex.

 

When BDSM is planned, a couple can take a look at what they are doing when having sex and experiment a little. The performance aspect of BDSM is what makes it so different and sensible from something else.

 

The ways how BDSM can be planned entails a number of great features. What happens here is that the power structure in sex can be analyzed and the man and woman in the activity can choose by their own about who should be the dominant figures. In other words, the man is not going to be the dominant and controlling figures every time like what many feminists argue.

 

What’s interesting is that the control in the activity can change during a scene. The first half can involve the man being in control and then the woman will be in charge in the second half. Sometimes people can alternate with the man running one scene and the woman doing it next time.

 

The balance of power is not a one-sided equation as many feminists like to argue. People who think that the act is unfairly divided are clearly not looking too closely in terms of how the people in BDSM can plan their activities ahead of time. The variables that come into play when engaging in a scene are incredibly varied and can involve many ways for people to have fun.

 

Tom Douvia